So here is some of the luggage bags and many other things that my oldest daughter took with her to her new home, 180 miles away. Well, it's still in sunny Florida and just 4 hours away.
We stayed up until late packing and got up early in the morning, very early in the morning.
We took many photos in the early morning but we all looked like cyclops so I decided to avoid the horror of Odysseus coming after us by concealing these photos to the secret not for blogging cave.
There were a lot of more boxes and clothes already in the car.
Of course all college students need sodas, Coca Cola to stay awake and Sprite to burp up all the bad food they eat (Hey, I still remember my college years).
It was a beautiful day, sunny, warm but not too hot and with amazing clear blue skies.
These are just some of the few reasons why so many of us live here in Florida.
Just look at the gorgeous mama nature!
Here we are! Yes, she is going to be spending her days and nights in this fabulous complex. The entire complex is only for college students and the people that work there.
I was so proud of my girl; she leased her place on her own and besides her grants she is taking loans to pay for her place for the entire year and I only going to be paying for the next year summer months. Well besides spending money, food money, clothing, medication, health insurance.....
This is our lunch; after spending hours fixing her place we needed some fast, cheap and filing lunch so Wendy's was the perfect choice.
We took a mini tour of the campus. The first time that my daughter came to the campus she came with her boyfriend's family because I was working and going to Saturday classes and couldn't take the day off.
The Knight, the college mascot is so freaking regal, and physically and intellectually ready for a fight.
This university is the 3rd largest campus in the nation and its was my oldest daughter dream to attend it. She worked very hard and finished her Associate in Science with honors and was part of the her college Dean List.
When I did my bachelors my first two years my grades were amazing but by the last two they were terrible because I was partying, working, going to concerts and having the time of my life (wait, that's what I still do). I knew that I was going to continue into my master's studies and I was already working so I really didn't care much for my grades as soon as they were good enough to get into a graduate program they were good enough for me.
It took me a long time to start and complete my masters, I started in 2007 and finished it in 2009 the same year that my oldest daughter graduated from high school.
My girl and her tall, smart and loveliest boyfriend; he's British-American and a ginger (that's always a plus for us).
He and both of his parents were there with us setting him up as well; he is also finishing his studies here just like his brother did two years ago.
I'm very happy that he is in my girl's life because I see a lot of the qualities that I like about myself in him. Specially the one about being there for the ones you love during the good and the bad times and saying what you mean and meaning what you say. In order words: a person that is reliable and present for you when and where you need them.
By the way: I take all my best life lessons from Dr. Seuss.
One of the faculties building; it was a crazily emotional week so its just fitting that I feel some attraction to the Psychology Faculty building.
I was sad, happy, tired excited, proud, loud and mentally unprepared for all the feelings that were pouring into my being all through out the two day that we spend moving and setting my daughter into her new life.
This walkway is between the faculties and it was my favorite part of the entire campus!!
These are the trees that are surrounding the walk way (bridge?).
I could swear I saw an alligator looking back at me but it also could be my imagination and the lack of sleep????
This is the center of the campus and the fountain was a lot more impressive in real life but we couldn't wait until it started to shoot higher water before we needed to move on to another area of the campus.
This is the inside of Student Government Building, and this mobile structure and the way the light comes in through the glass is quite impressive when you are in it.
This building has the school bank, library, coffee shops, cafeterias and restaurants in it. It was like a mini city and so many preppy kids roaming around with big eyed parents like me thinking "my god my kid did good and now I'll be even more broke for the next couple of years"!!!!!!
Daughter's room; I was so proud of her color choices and to the fact that she purchased everything for her room with her scholarship's leftover money.
It took us between 4 to 6 hours to get her room, bathroom, computer area and closet ready. Her boyfriend's mom got her a dark curtain for the window for those days that she doesn't want to see the sun early in the morning and some extra stuff for her room.
Another proud moment: my love for The Beatles stays engraved into her music conscious.
I think I did my job for the good of everlasting music.
Here I'm super-dupper-tired trying to helped her pick up groceries that will last her for at least 2 weeks.
I wore my old jeans and t-shirts from Target with a pile of accessories.
I left a bit after this photo and I cried a lot when I was leaving but then I had to concentrate because it was pouring down raining on our way home so the eyes needed to be in top clear shape.
I'm so sorry for the length of this post; I guess I've been quiet for too long and have too much to say.
Love,
32 comments:
Well, friend. This is an exciting time for your daughter. I think college was the best. I loved it. And the college in the pics looks beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
awwwww!! I know you will miss your daughter but isnt great watching them grow up?
Thanks for sharing such a huge step in both your beautiful daughter's and your life with us. It must be such a strange time with her being all grown-up and at university but you should be very proud of what a fantastic job you did of bringing her up.
I'm so pleased she's found a lovely Brit to take care of her. xxx
your daughters are beautiful !!!
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Don't apologise for your lovely long post. You should be very proud of your beautiful and clever daughter - I'm sure you are.
It's an amazing looking campus.
Oh how delightful your girls are - and how proud you must be of the wonderful job you have done raising them (and giving them a love of good music!). Big hugs to you Ofelia, I hope these girls know how lucky they are to have you as their mother. And how FANTASTIC is that bridge over the trees/swamp/alligators!
Sarah xxx
Ofelia, your daughters are so beautiful! Como su madre! I loved, loved reading this post! The photos that accompanied it helped me visualize how you spent the entire day. I can only imagine how sad it was for you to drive away. At least you are four hours away and not in a different state or country. And the boyfriend is close so that's also a plus. You'll see, it will be okay! :)
You are a beautiful person Ofelia, it shows in your face and writing. Genuine and honest. You enjoy and take pride in the journey of life, not just reaching the destination. It is a rare quality. Your daughter takes after you, so pretty!! You must be so proud of her. She takes after her mum in her fashion choices. Love the comforter in her room, so bright and vibrant! And my dear you look lovely no matter how tired you are!
Oh, Ofelia, you are so blessed. Just blog sharing the family you three created together shows how remarkable you are, all that love that radiates from you. Both your girls are so beautiful. Such a proud moment for all of you, but especially for mama. It's fascinating how time zooms by (pre-school ➜ college on her own) & some moments become frozen in our memories (pre-school ➜ college on her own). xoxoxoxo
Aww love the walkway too and of course it was an aligator! Love the colors in your daughters room and the beatles poster--I can see why you are proud.
Judy C, college is one of the most exciting times for our kids and for us because its the front door to adulthood and to a different life for our kids.
Shulamit, my dear its quite wonderful to watch them become adults and seeing the light after all those difficult teen years.
Vix, thanks for your compliments to my motherhood abilities.
I'm just glad that she is following her dreams and that not matter where she is we are still a family.
And I'm very pleased as well that she has someone of substance in her life.
Luna Tiger (Selenite), thank you so much!
Loo, thank you for being patience enough to read the post and comment. I'm very proud of both of my girls and I'm very happy that we were able to make pass the insane teens years and that I didn't send to live in Mars like I sometimes said I would do.
Sarah, I'm very lucky that I had a clear vision of how I wanted to raised my kids and there were very hard years but I never gave up or back down and just like I often said to them: "you will appreciate my actions when you are older"
An the bridge was so fantastic and I felt calm and relax while on it.
OH Ofelia... you must have a mix of emotion stirring up inside... your baby is growing up and leaving home and yet as a mother you wish her to be closer to you again... I know I do not want my daughter to grow up so fast...
She is beautiful and takes so much after her beautiful mother...
I love the pictures... really enjoyed looking at them... the campus looks awesome and she will be taken care of as her boy friend looks like a lovely young man...
Bella, yes so far it's been working out ok; my daughter is already used to her classes and the changes of being by herself and I'm already used to an empty room and late evening calls.
Ambu, I'm extremely thankful and humble for your amazing comment. Thank You Very Much!
Paula, Devi, thanks my dear for your lovely words and it's so true about time; it zooms and there is no better way to capture it that with frozen memories and some well focus photos.
Paula, I thought it was but my fellow companions thought it was the lack of sleep.
I love the colors and the poster as well; they give the room a colorful and cool vibe.
Tabouleh, kids grow up so fast and we don't realized because we are living our lives together is only when a major separation occur that we are force to step back and being an observant into our own lives.
Este es un post muy emotivo para mÃ, que ya pasé por esa experiencia con mi hijos, sé cómo te sientes y sé lo orgullosa que estás. No es para menos, el lugar es maravilloso y seguro que a tu querida hija le espera un fututo prometedor.
Por lo menos, eso es lo que yo, de corazón, le deseo.
Muchos besos. Y
Yoana, gracias por tus palabras de experiencias y de aliento en estos momentos estoy ya beien por que se que ella esta tranquila, le gusta su universidad y tiene a su novio y a varias de sus mejores amigas en las misma cuidad.
This is a great post. What a bitter sweet time. I can tell you are a very proud Mama. (((hugs))))
Birdie, bitter sweet is a perfect word to describe it.
looks like a great trip!
Lyosha
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Lyosha, it was a great trip. Full of emotions and excitement!
Aww, oh this is so wonderful for you to share with us, attending Uni is such an important and memorable time... I still remember when my mother helped me get wgat I needed. I know you'll miss her as she spreads her wings and grows, getting out into the world. She will remember that! You look amazing by the way! xx
Love post thank you for sharing and lots of great pictures,4 hours is a long way away but not to long :: My son want's to go to America next year and that is such a long way from us:(
Madison, thanks for telling that I look amazing!
I was so tired and I cried and laughed so much that this comment is really appreciate.
The university years are just the best experience ever and I know that we both are going to look back in a couple of years and be nostalgic about this photos.
Claire, OMG an ocean in between is so much harder than 4 hours!
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